Frustration and anger are common reactions to being banned from a dating app like Grindr. It can make you feel rejected, confused about what went wrong, and even question your integrity. I know how you feel.
The other person is more at blame when you get blocked than you are. Someone may suddenly block another user for many reasons that have nothing to do with your character.
However, it’s fair to expect that this experience would temporarily lower your self-esteem. Be careful not to let yourself get bogged down in self-doubt or negative ideas about dating. Restoring your self-assurance while keeping an open mind toward new relationships takes time and perspective.
The Telltale Signs
What does it mean when someone blocks you on Grindr? Here are a few signs to look out for.
If the person you have been speaking with or set as a favorite suddenly disappears from both your chat history and Favorites, that’s a sure sign. Their profile will just disappear. It will seem like a new profile on your grid, empty of any conversation history you may have had with them before.
Similarly, if you try to open a profile that you believe has blocked you, you will just get a “Profile Not Found” message.
Messages from people you’ve been speaking with may suddenly stop appearing in your inbox. You can still view their profile, but when you attempt to send them a new message, an error reading “Message Not Sent” will appear.
Repeated disappearances and reappearances in your grid are usually signs that someone is blocking and unblocking you. They might be divided or just like suspense.
There may not be an absolute way to avoid being blocked, but it can help to make conversations polite and to take things offline within an acceptable amount of time. However, blocking does occur and frequently reveals more about the opposite person than the first. Keeping a level head is important.
Unfortunately, it’s not common for people to ignore or block you on dating apps. If you want to put yourself out there online and face rejection, here are some things to keep in mind:
Remember it’s not about you – As mentioned, most blocking or ghosting usually reflects the other person’s issues or circumstances rather than being a judgment of your worth.
Take breaks – If you feel rejected frequently, take a breather from using the app. Too much swiping when you’re down can take a toll.
Focus on the positives – Dwell on the great conversations that turned into dates rather than the people who ghosted. Every match is a new possibility.
Don’t make assumptions – You have no idea why someone blocked or ignored you. Making up stories usually makes you feel worse.
Learn to let go – Getting blocked hurts the most when you get attached prematurely. Keep things light until you get to know someone.
You have an option over how much you let rejection affect your self-esteem, even though it’s inevitable. Online dating is all about keeping things in perspective and keeping an open, positive mindset.
Conclusion
Instead of dwelling on negative experiences, focus your energy on the promising conversations and exciting connections you make on Grindr. Be kind, keep things lighthearted, and let things progress organically with the right person.
Getting blocked happens to most people using dating apps occasionally. Brush it off and stay optimistic, taking breaks when needed. How much you let it impact your self-worth is up to you. You have the power to keep an open, positive mindset while putting yourself out there.
